There comes a moment in every music lover’s life when you realise you’ve been collecting
memories as much as music. Whether it’s that worn cassette tape from your first road trip, or
crush, the CD that got you through a breakup, or the vinyl you splurged on last year, these
albums aren’t just entertainment, they’re the soundtrack to your life.
There comes a moment in every music lover’s life when you realise you’ve been collecting
memories as much as music. Whether it’s that worn cassette tape from your first road trip, or
crush, the CD that got you through a breakup, or the vinyl you splurged on last year, these
albums aren’t just entertainment, they’re the soundtrack to your life.
Let’s be honest: streaming has changed everything. We’ve gone from carefully curating album
collections to having access to virtually everything ever recorded. While that’s incredible,
something’s been lost. Albums used to be events. You’d save up for them, go down to ‘Our
Price Records’ to go buy it, read the notes on the bus ride home, and play it until you knew
every crack and popl.
A top 100 list forces you to remember what that felt like. It makes you think about albums as
complete works of art rather than just containers for a couple of hit singles. For those of us who
grew up when albums mattered, this is a way to honor that relationship with music.
Before you dive in, set some parameters for yourself:
What counts as “yours”? This isn’t Rolling Stone’s list or Pitchfork’s retrospective. This is
about the albums that moved you, changed you, or simply refused to leave your rotation. Dark
Side of the Moon might be objectively brilliant, but if you never connected with it, it doesn’t
belong on your list.
Full albums only. Greatest hits compilations and “best of” collections don’t count. This exercise
is about appreciating the album as an artistic statement, the way the artist intended it to be
heard.
No decade quotas. Don’t force yourself to include five albums from the ’70s, ten from the ’80s,
and so on. Let your genuine preferences guide you. If you discovered most of your favorite
music between ages 15 and 25, that’s fine, there’s actual science behind why music hits
differently during those years.
As you start building your list, you’ll notice natural groupings emerge. Here are some categories
that might help you think through your choices:
The Desert Island Five. If you could only keep five albums for the rest of your life, what would
they be? These are your untouchables, the albums that define your musical identity. Everything
else works around these anchors.
The Formative Years. What were you listening to when you were figuring out who you were?
Maybe it was Nirvana’s Nevermind when you were 16, or maybe you were that kid with the
Radiohead obsession. These albums shaped your taste in everything that came after.
The Discovery Albums. These are the records that opened new doors, the first time you “got”
jazz, or when you realised hip-hop was for you, or when someone played you that obscure rock
album that blew your mind.
The Comfort Food. Some albums aren’t revolutionary, but you’ve listened to them hundreds of
times. They’re reliable friends. There’s no shame in including them.
The Growers. Remember that album you didn’t understand at first, but eventually it clicked and
became essential? These dark horses often end up being the most rewarding.
Here’s where it gets difficult. You’ll quickly realise you have 200 albums you want to include.
Some tough decisions await:
The Artist Limit Dilemma. Should you include four Beatles albums, or limit yourself to one per
artist to create more diversity? There’s no right answer, but it’s worth considering. Some artists
define entire phases of your life.
Influence vs. Enjoyment. Do you include that album everyone says is important, even if you
don’t love it? My advice: if you’re not genuinely excited about defending its place on your list,
leave it off.
The Recency Bias. It’s easy to overweight albums you’ve been obsessing over lately. Give
yourself permission to set aside recent discoveries for a few months, then see if they still feel
essential.
Nostalgia Check. Some albums remind you of great times, but would you actually want to listen
to them today? If the answer is no, you might be confusing a good memory with a good album.
Start with a brain dump. Spend an evening scrolling through your music collection: digital,
physical, whatever you’ve got and write down everything that sparks joy. Don’t edit yourself; just
list everything. You’ll probably end up with 200-300 albums.
Now comes the hard part: start cutting. Group your albums by how essential they feel. The ones
you’d defend passionately go in one pile. The ones you like but could live without, go in another.
Be ruthless.
Create a working draft of 100-120 albums, then live with it for a week. Play some of the albums
you haven’t heard in years. You might be surprised, some won’t hold up, while others will
remind you why you loved them in the first place.
Here’s a secret: if Led Zeppelin IV or Abbey Road or Kind of Blue makes your list, don’t
apologise for it. They’re classics for a reason. The goal isn’t to have the most obscure,
impressive list, it’s to be honest about what music actually matters to you.
That said, if your list is all classic rock or all hip-hop or all jazz, maybe push yourself to include
at least a few albums outside your comfort zone that genuinely moved you. Some of the best
music exists in the spaces between genres.
Once you’ve got your 100, write them down. Not in a notes app, actually write them on paper, or
create a document you can print and put on your wall. There’s something about seeing it all
together that makes it real.
Number them if you want, or organise them chronologically, or by genre, or don’t organise them
at all. The point is to create something you can look at, argue with yourself about, and revise as
you change and grow.
Your top 100 isn’t carved in stone. Music that feels essential at 45 might not resonate the same
way at 55. New albums will come along that demand inclusion. Personal experiences will
change how you hear old favorites.
Revisit your list every few years. See what’s held up and what hasn’t. Notice what you want to
add and what you’re ready to let go. The list is a snapshot of who you are musically at this
moment in time.
The best part about creating this list is sharing it with other music lovers!
There’s nothing quite like the debates you’ll have: “You’ve got three Radiohead albums but no
REM?” or “How is Nevermind not in your top 100?” These conversations reconnect you with old
friends and help you understand new ones.
Swap lists with your buddies from high school or college. But here’s something special: You
really must share your list with your kids.
Creating your top 100 isn’t just for you, it’s a gift to your family. When you curate these albums,
you’re creating a digital time capsule that your kids (and maybe grandkids) can access anytime.
It’s like leaving them your diary, except instead of written words, it’s the soundtrack to your life.
I saved my Playlist on Spotify (Daddy’s Top 100) and then shared it with my kids, that was over
a year ago now and although when I did, they were far from enthusiastic, they now really like it.
And we share alot more music between ourselves as a result.
Quite suddenly, they’re started listening to the albums that shaped who you are. They’ll hear the
music you listened to when you were their age, the records that got you through tough times,
the albums that made you fall in love with their other parent. These aren’t just songs, they’re
pieces of your story.
And here’s the beautiful part: some of those tunes might actually rub off on them. Maybe they’ll
hear a Fleetwood Mac album and understand why you still love it decades later. Perhaps an
REM record will click for them in a way it did when you were young. You might catch them
humming along to a track from a Marvin Gaye album or discovering that David Bowie album
you’ve loved forever was exactly what they needed to hear.
Even if they don’t embrace your entire list (and let’s face it, your kids will probably think some of your music is embarrassingly uncool), they’ll have a window into your musical soul. They’ll
understand you better. And years from now, when they’re making their own top 100 list, some of your albums might find their way onto it—not because they felt obligated to include them, but because they genuinely connected with them.
That’s legacy. That’s real.
Compare notes with your kids. Share what made your list and why. Ask them about their
favorite albums. You’ll be amazed at how much common ground you find—and how revealing
the differences are. Sometimes the best conversations happen over music.
Defining your top 100 albums isn’t about creating a definitive ranking or proving your musical
credentials. It’s about honoring the role music has played in your life. It’s about remembering
who you were, understanding who you are, and maybe discovering something new about
yourself in the process.
So pour yourself a drink, put on some headphones, and start making your list. Take your time.
Argue with yourself. Change your mind. And remember: the best list is the one that’s true to
you, not the one that impresses anyone else.
What albums defined you? The answer might surprise you.